Finding Your Passion

Hey y’all!

Let’s talk passion today—no, not the steamy romance novel kind (though no judgment if that’s your thing! Remember, I am the author of Graffiti Love Diaries https://a.co/d/7C5lFCf, and storylines heat up over there.) I’m talking about that deep, soul-stirring passion that makes you jump out of bed in the morning, ready to take on the world. The kind of work that never feels like work—and sometimes has you, well, definitely me, feeling 80% UNBOTHERED but 20% guilty about making dollars doing something that comes so easily. But let’s be real: while chasing our passions sounds all dreamy and Instagram-worthy, the reality is a bit more… complicated. And by complicated, I mean it’s a rollercoaster of emotions, financial ups and downs, and the occasional “WTH?? Wait a minute, I made zero profit this month! 👀” moment.

The Journey to Passion-Fueled Living

First things first: finding your passion is a journey, not a destination. You’re not going to wake up one day with all the answers neatly packaged in a bow. I’m in the thick of it right now—navigating the ups and downs, trying to balance my creative passions with the not-so-glamorous reality of paying bills. Some months, the financial side of things is… let’s say, “less than ideal.” Other months? Well, let’s just say I’m not exactly popping champagne.

No, those days are gone… for now. Until then, I’m enjoying lukewarm instant coffee from my cozy little nook.

“Do what you have to do, to do what you want to do!”

– Denzel Washington

But here’s the thing—everything we do today is an investment in our future. We might not see the fruits of our labor instantly, but with patience, perseverance, the right people in your circle, and a dash of faith, they will come. Just like a well-cooked meal (you know, the kind that simmers on the stove for hours? Low and slow I call it), the good stuff takes time. So, if you’re in the same boat—stressed, broke – my bad – I mean, financially challenged, but oh-so-passionate—know that you’re not alone. We’re all cooking something up, and trust me, it’s going to be delicious.

Health First, Always

Now, while we’re out here hustling to make our dreams a reality, let’s not forget to take care of our most valuable asset—our health. Yes, passion projects are exciting, but they can also be exhausting. Burnout is real, folks, and it’s not pretty. That’s why I make it a point (I can’t lie. Literally yesterday, I had to force myself away from the computer to whoosah) to take health breaks—whether it’s a quick walk, a stretch session, or just sitting quietly with my thoughts. Mindfulness and exercise aren’t just buzzwords; they’re essential ingredients in the recipe for success. After all, health is wealth, right? What can we do without it?

When you’re feeling good physically and mentally, your passion shines even brighter. So, let’s make a pact: prioritize health first, and let everything else fall into place. Your future self will thank you.

Now for the Lonely Side of Passion

Okay, let’s address the elephant in the room: loneliness. When you’re deep in the trenches of pursuing your passion, it can get a little lonely. Sure, you’ve got your dreams and your vision, but sometimes it feels like you’re on an island. Next week, we’ll dive into this topic—how to deal with the loneliness that often comes with passion-pursuing, and how to find your tribe along the way. Spoiler alert: It’s possible to be both wildly independent and connected to others.

So, stick with me, my fellow dream chasers. We’re on this journey together, and while it’s not always easy, it’s worth it. Remember, everything you’re doing today is an investment in your future—no matter how tough it gets.

Until next time, take care of yourself, keep feeding that passion, and know that you’re not alone on this wild ride. We’re out here, and we’re doing it!

With love and a healthy dose of the real Rain Rose.

See you next week,

xo